a bad idea, for the most part. I think naming names and telling "the number" are really stupid. It's totally begging for drama and all it ends up doing is hurting feelings. You can Wives looking nsa Bridgend decide for yourself how upset you want to be about this but the bottom line is that you can't tell him who he can be friends with. I'd drop you like a hot potato if we were dating and you tried to tell me to get rid of some one I was genuinely friends with. Either you trust him or you don't. No matter what you might believe, IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH BEING ABLE TO TRUST HER. Why does fessing up about your feelings mean you are going to be able to let it go? I doubt you'll feel any more over the issue, having voiced it. In fact I think you'll feel worse. You'll start thinking "Well I told him it makes me uncomfortable but he's still hanging out with her", whenever you get in a snit about him/her/whatever irks you. You've only been wrestling with this issue since Friday, I don't think that's a terribly time to try to find the right perspective.