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Queer woman in search of same
Original title of this posting was going to be, "ISO kinsey 4-6, like me," but then I thought that might be too cryptic. Who am I? Complicated. SF Bay Area transplant in love with the island for years, but still homesick for people who get it. I miss being surrounded by folks queerer than a $3 bill who are totally happy to sit around watching (and maybe even critiquing!) a wide range of lgbtq films from the last century. Of course, I don't miss it enough to go back. Upcountry girl through-and-through. My passions include poetry, making art, gluten-free baking, tiny houses sustainable architecture, social justice, sci fi shows, cultivating compassion, playing Boggle (among other games), being outdoors, and growing as a person. Spirituality is central to my life; dogma is not. I'm not perfect, but my intention is to use all my experiences to help me open my heart further. I am not monogamous, but I am in favor of keeping promises, honoring truth, and being tender with people's hearts. Who am I looking for? I'm really into people who are authentiy warm-hearted, are smart and kind, and whose words match their actions. I also like people who are mature and can integrate innocence with experience. Shared passions make the world go 'round! I want someone to laugh and play with, maybe to do art or read with (oh joy of joys!), someone tender and tough, a gestalt. Ultimately, I'm hoping to find someone to go deep with over the long-term, to be a partner in crime, to share joy and triumph, and encourage each other to grow, but that kind of thing doesn't happen from the start. Turn ons: Intelligence. Passion. Queerness. Compassion and empathy. Complexity. Generosity. People who get me. Turn offs: Incongruence. Jealousy. Possessiveness of people. Manipulation...even the innocent kind. Biological essentialism. Nonconsensual inequity. I'm looking for genuine connection, not a hookup. If you resonate with some or all of what I've said here, want to talk a bit via email, and then maybe meet and see how we hit it off, send me a real message engaging me about some of your passions, interests, and what you're looking for.
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