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This site has been deemed the worst place to try and make a connection but stupid me is giving it a try. I am not desperate nor am I crazy. I am just a normal guy who decided to do the right thing a long time ago and not be like every other guy chasing tail trying to get his numbers up. Funny thing is, I didnt know when you started to do the right thing and treat people with respect, you are no longer appealing or get respect in return. People of today think they can just disrespect and walk all over you without any consequences and like it is their right. When you dont want to sleep around or have "fun" your options are very small. All the bad girls are well looking for bad guys. All the good girls dont believe you are a good guy and think it is just a gimmick until you get what you want. Everyone else in between have these high standards they cannot meet themselves or simply have been broken to the point of no return by or being left as a single parent.
I am simple and just want the simple things. I just wish I had you laying next to me while we talk the night away but since I cant have that, I would just settle for long nights of chatting or talking on the phone. Sometimes I feel like I am never going to get what I want but I have hope deep in my heart. I may not be the best looking or have all of the fancy things women of today like but I have a big heart and I know I am a good man. You dont have to worry about being ed nasty names or if I will run off and leave you as a single parent if you got pregnant. I believe in taking care of my woman and being protective since she is my ultimate prize. I am sweet, kind and affectionate and women of today think that is a sign of weakness. Most dont have any idea how to handle that because they never had a man in their life to treat them like that anyway. And I am sure if you are reading this you yourself probably think there is something wrong with me for posting on slist, that I may be fat, ugly, broke or desperate going nowhere in life.
Believe it or not, I am actually quite the opposite and you might actually get what you want. I wish I could say the same for me since I come across candidates and become extremely disappointed when the masks comes off. I will never have to prove myself to you or anyone because it is part of my character and a real man has nothing to prove but his all to be. I know I am attractive in my own quirky ways and I have never been shallow or one to pick someone based solely on looks. Besides, what man or woman wants to have the only deciding factor if they are a good man or woman based on their looks or physical appearance? There is much more to me than how I look, what kind of car I drive and how much I make. How about how I keep you interested? Treat you with respect? Make you happy in and out of the bedroom? How I make your family proud by bringing home a good man with good values and ambition? How I will be a good father? A great husband? Or how I would be the same person before and years after?
I put myself out there but it is a shame as to how women really are these days by selling their bodies for weed, for rent money and for fancy bags and shoes. It is a shame how a person, both men and women, can perceive themselves as one way and actually be the complete opposite when you get to know them. It is a shame how women sleep with one guy one weekend and their boyfriend or husband the same night or next day. It is a shame when a female has 3 from 3 different guys and still wants to have unprotected sex. It is a shame when anyone can just judge you based on their own personal experience, thoughts and stereotypes but has never even travelled outside of Chicago or the state. It is a shame when women think I am like one of those guys and get mad at me when I tell them goodbye and block their numbers because I am not interested.
It is simple. I please myself, so I dont need you to please me. I am not on the DL. I dont have multiple women. I have my own and do not need you to support me. I am not insecure, clingy or needy. I am not a baller, a rapper or a make believe entertainer. I dont want to sleep with you on the 1st or second date. I dont complain about things like taking you out to dinner or driving miles to come see you. You never have to wonder where I am every night. I am not a sugar daddy. I am not a kid nor do I have a little boy mentality. I am not indecisive. I am not weak nor do I have a weak backbone. I am not disrespectful but I will not tolerate being disrespected. I am not a liar and I am actually very happy telling the truth. I am about furthering my education and bettering my mind, body and wallet. I absolutely wont settle for less. I will always encourage you to do your best. I dont let money or material things make me or break me. I am not perfect since I acknowledge my flaws and work on making myself better. I lead by example and follow with guidance. I pray and have faith but I dont think I am better than others because of my race or religion.
How am I doing the right thing? for starters I am not here looking for a lay. I am not trying to come to your place nor do I even want you to come to my place. I am not here to win you over with some fancy dinner, you can surely pay for your half. Money doesnt make me, I make money. I am a sucker for love and kindness but I am far from a sucker. I wont send you old pictures so you dont have to worry about being catfished or embarrassed in public. I am consistent when I feel like it is actually mutual. I wont give up what means the most to me so fast and soon so why should you?
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