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Looking For A Real Woman
I know this is something that's extremely hard to find in southern California, but I don't settle for less than what I want so the search continues...I'm on here looking for a woman who knows what she wants, and is ready to settle down into a real relationship. I'm much past the whole bar/club thing and no longer look to that as a way to meet women who are past the whole playing stage in their lives, because most of them aren't. On the occasions that I do go, i'm just there to have fun and that's it. I also am not into dating women that I work with everyday either, and so that brings me here to . I know that while there's still a lot of the same type of females on here that you would find in a club or a bar, there are also a lot of mature women who are looking for the same as what i'm looking for. And it's free on top of that lol. I'm independent and take care of myself (good job, own place, own car etc), and most importantly i'm a very unique, one of a kind individual who's not afraid to be himself. So basiy once you meet me you probably won't meet many others like me. I'm into watching , are what I like the most. I also like drama, action, comedy, and gangster films. I listen to just about every type of music. I'm into , sports, amusement parks, the beach, and food (no i'm not fat). Also, i'm a black guy, so if you're not down with that then click the back button right now. I'm mostly into thick women, not fat but not skinny either, nice curves, height/weight (for those of you who either don't know or pretend not to know what thick means). Hispanic (latin and caribbean especially), Asian, White, and Mixed are my preference, but I still find attractive things both lookswise and personalitywise in every race. Looks do matter to me, especially since I am a good looking person myself, but personality is what sticks, and I know good looks usually don't last forever (atleast for most people they don't). So I know enough to look past all that and look for the other things that really hold a relationship together in the long run. What i'm looking for is a naturally good looking woman that can give me 10 things and that's trust, loyalty, honesty, understanding. Somebody that's caring, hard working, is fun to be around can put other people ahead of themselves from time to time, is true to themselves and not fake (like so many women in this part of the country are), and can be themselves no matter what anybody might think. I'm also looking for somebody who's atleast 23 years old, but no older than 28 (I would like to have someday which is the reason for the 28 year old cutoff). If you are under 23 and think you're mature enough to handle a real man in a real relationship feel free to hit me up, but i've had too many frustrating experiences with women (or should I say girls) in the 18-22 year old range, making themselves out to be way more mature in the beginning then they really are, so i'm much done with that unless you can do a real good job of convincing me to reconsider. I have available on request, but if you want them you have to ask for them. I'm not into putting my pictures up for every stranger in the world to see. Trust me I am not ugly, i'm far from that as a matter of fact. Just won't put them up on here. If u like what you've read then send me an . We can exchange and women want sex Cedar Grove Tennessee all that from there. Also if you're going to me put your favorite color as the subject so I can easily filter out the advertisements from my . I have a busy schedule where every minute of my life matters and I don't want to waste valuable time clicking on spam mail. So if I don't see that favorite color as the subject I will not read it.
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Rough break up... m4w
Hi, Well I am having a tough go of things right now... I am a defense contractor and had been in Afghanistan for 4 months up until about 2 weeks ago. This is when I came home to find my fiance had replaced me. I had no where to go since we purchased home together. I really dont know anyone in San Diego and really need to get myself out of this funk. I am a pretty smart guy and in good shape. I would like to go out to dinner or have a drink with someone and just have interesting conversation. I am renting a room right now, which is not ideal, but am looking to buy something new within next 6 months. I know there are plenty of lonely people out there like me who just want to be able to go see a movie or something without being depressed by going alone. If anyone is interested in having dinner sometime or maybe an activity, let me know. I can send you a picture if you send me yours. Thanks! 
